You need a break. This is a truth that has been acknowledged for months, was simply tucked away beneath your many obligations. There was work to do and a family to provide for. You had no minutes to spare for anything beyond duty. Now, however, your patience is becoming thin. You’ve been trapped within a home, forced to answer all questions and resolve all conflicts. A mother’s duty is never done — but you need a chance to reinvigorate yourself. You need a night without worry.

That may be difficult to achieve, however.

Because, while you desire a change, you know that your children can’t be left alone. They instead need someone to watch them; and baby-sitters are troublesome to find. The ones of good reputation have already been scheduled, claimed by other mothers. And, while you know that one of the neighborhood girls is seeking clients, you aren’t certain if she can be trusted.

She can be — as long as she offers proof of responsibility.

When considering teen sitters, you must be aware of their age and see if they can compensate for it with specific traits. Look for:

One: Familiarity. Be certain a youth knows you and your family. She’ll be less likely to make mistakes if she’s aware that the consequences will be immediately felt. Your children will also be more comfortable with her and refrain from acting out.

Two: Experience. Make sure that a sitter has worked with children before (specifically ones of similar ages to yours). Never accept someone who lacks understanding of how to handle the tantrums and tempers. If there’s time, call for references to ensure all clients were happy with the results.

Three: Education. Even a basic knowledge of safety and CPR is craved for young sitters. See if any classes have been taken.

It’s possible to put your faith in a teenager. You must simply understand her credentials and how they will effect your children.